American actress Winona Ryder states, “I think too much. I think ahead. I think behind. I think sideways. I think it all. If it exists, I’ve f*cking thought of it.” People can overthink themselves to the point of detriment if they don’t carefully monitor it. But, it may be difficult to differentiate between thinking and overthinking, especially if you’re naturally more inclined to be pensive and generally enjoy studying abstract concepts and ideas. So, what does overthinking look like? And how do you know you’re taking part in it?
Overthinking is when you imagine what your future will look like 10 years from now as you hesitate in choosing between two options presented, considering it to be a life or death decision. It’s dwelling on the past long after a relationship has ended. It’s picking apart a situation and creating a problem before it even exists. It’s repeatedly choosing to sit on the sidelines to observe and analyze an event instead of actively participating in it. If you identify strongly with many of these examples, then it may be time to think about how to think less. Psych2Goshares with you 5 ways to help you stop overthinking:
1. Schedule a time to reflect.
It’s impossible to get rid of thoughts altogether and separate your mind from yourself. After all, how you perceive and see the world plays such a large part on your identity. But to give yourself a sense of control over your thoughts, you can start reserving a fixed amount of time for them. You can give yourself five minutes to think, worry, and analyze. Then, once the time is up, you can spend the next ten or twenty minutes reflecting on the situation and write about your concerns. Once that time is also eventually up, you can throw away the piece of paper…
HUFFLEPUFF: “Vissi d’arte, vissi d’amore, non feci mai male ad anima viva. I lived for art, I lived for love; never did I harm a living soul.” –Giuseppe Giacosa + Luigi Illica (Tosca)
Having bad anxiety moments really sucks. Sometimes it may seem that nothing will help you, but today at Psych2go, we will provide some anxiety support in the form of quotes, sayings and questions to ask yourself. These are compiled and written to both aid you and maybe make you think about the causes of your anxiety. Some of these anxiety quotes may provide comfort, some will make you think, other anxiety quotes may make you look up a book or person which could help you learn more about yourself or anxiety in general. Share these with everyone who may need them.
1. You are trying so hard, you can’t always be perfect…